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Counseling & Wellness

Welcome to the Online Resource page for Counseling & Wellness.

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There are always signs in an unhealthy relationship.
While everyone has behaviors we can work on, we also shouldn’t brush aside bad behavior as “cute” or “trivial.”
The Couplets features a series of 8 different videos that highlight unhealthy relationship behaviors.
If you are seeing three or more of these unhealthy behaviors in your relationship, it’s a problem.
Don’t be ashamed to tell someone when #thatsnotlove.

Intimidation is a manipulation tactic designed to make you feel bad about yourself. It’s not your fault and it’s never okay. Know relationship abuse so you can stop it. #thatsnotlove http://bit.ly/joinolbily

After you watch the video, join us on Yammer for our weeklong discussion. After you sign into Engage, click on Yammer and search for the group, “Real Talk”

Insults and name calling are not part of a positive relationship. #thatsnotlove http://bit.ly/joinolbily

Intimidation is a manipulation tactic designed to make you feel bad about yourself. It’s not your fault and it’s never okay. Know relationship abuse so you can stop it. #thatsnotlove http://bit.ly/joinolbily

You have a right to be respected in person and on social media. Know relationship abuse so you can stop it. #thatsnotlove http://bit.ly/joinolbily

Threats of self-harm are a serious red flag in any relationship. Know relationship abuse so you can stop it. #thatsnotlove http://bit.ly/joinolbily

When he or she won’t let go, it’s not okay. Know relationship abuse so you can stop it. #thatsnotlove http://bit.ly/joinolbily

If your partner is showing up uninvited too often, you’re right to feel uncomfortable. Help put a stop to relationship abuse. #thatsnotlove http://bit.ly/joinolbily

If you or someone you know is being isolated by their partner, it might be relationship abuse. Know relationship abuse so you can stop it. #thatsnotlove https://bit.ly/joinolbily